[starlinn]

We used to be one of those couples who didnt allow kissing. Because we were relatively new at a MFF, I didnt know how I would react to it. My hubby, on the other hand, needed it, so we came to a compromise. If at anytime, I feel unconfortable with him kissing another, I would give him a signal. The first time we were with another female, he went for it, and not only didnt I mind, it excited me! We still have the boundry of confort for me, but now I cant even remember what the signal is. If another person has that boundry we do respect it though, it would not be a reason to not play with them.