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Originally Posted by LikeMinds321 For us, kissing has to be a part of swinging. And I'm talking about kissing on the lips.
Dito
For us, we know that kissing each other is what makes the kissing special and loving. We could kiss hundreds of other people - even using the same "techniques" of kissing - and it would never feel, or mean, the same with those swing partners.
Think of it this way, is it the meaning behind your actions, or your actions that mean the most? 
I always have to begin with kissing. 
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Dito
I/We agree. Mr RMRx2 here. It was I that couldn't see kissing, figured it unnecessary. I felt that would be harder for me to handle, GO FIGURE?!
What did I know! Many things get adjusted as you proceed. For us that was the first! We started with a mfm, and within the first 15mins I was encouraging VERY passionate kissing between mrs rmrx2 and our guest. I personally can't see getting worked up without some passionate kissing. And when we have a gentleman join us for mfm, well I want the mrs to be treated well and shown she is desired. When with a cpl or female, it is the same. So for us, that was one rule that changed very quickly and we agree "it is the meaning behind your actions" that make the difference. We have had many encounters in the lifestyle and still, when we talk of such things, agree it still feels like we have only made love to each other,,,,,because that is the way it truely is. We can have and enjoy passionate sex with friends, but it is not making love with them. rmrx2