A few observations.
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Originally posted by LIZA:
I don't think my husband MINDS another man, he isn't one of those guys who is into seeing me have sex with other men, but seems totally ok with another man there......I am just waiting for the day he loosens up and try a little guy-guy fun
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Ok. What if he
NEVER loosens up and tries a little guy-guy fun? Will you love him any less? Maybe he's waiting for you to loosen up to try penetration with another man? Something to think about? Or maybe it
NEVER occured to him.....
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Originally posted by JustAskJulie:
The guys all THOUGHT they'd be fine but yet they get in the situation and it's another story. 2 of the 5 could barely get it up at all.
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Wow. As bad as that sounds, it sounds about right to me. From my own experience of myself and others, I have to say that experience does overcome 99% of that. It's usually just that there is suddenly so much of everything sexual in front of you, that you just have to relax and let it soak in for a moment. It's pretty common and it's really no big deal. Usually you just have to lay back and get your mind on something else. Before you know it, it's back and ready to play.
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Originally posted by LIZA:
My personal experience is there are a LOT of couples with the unrealistic experience that they will find single bi females.......a LOT of single or cheating men with the unrealistic assumption they will find lots of willing couples/females. In MOST cases these people have very dissapointing results. We have always sought out only couples, so these are not issues for us.
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Ok, so maybe that's the way you see it. I'm not you and I don't see it the same way. I choose to see it rather that, We are so picky, that the ones that you are complaining about, we weed out anyway. Just as we did when we decided on who to marry.
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Originally posted by LIZA:
I would never DREAM of partipating in a gangbang or any situation where men were expected to have sex with me one after another...........I can understand where THAT would create some performance anxiety!
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Ok, with all of your experience in visiting clubs and of meeting couples and others, right here, you mark yourself as still being relatively innocent to the deeper aspects of swinging. That's fine. That's why it's called Soft-Swinging. *Smiles* Not everyone wants to get that deep into things. Some of us do, and we hold many different and some wholly different understandings of this than you do.
That's cool. That's why Julie created this website. A central location for us all to learn from each other.
Thanx Jules:
Husband of CyberMWCouple
[This message has been edited by CyberMWCouple (edited 10-27-2000).]