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Originally posted by LIZA:
Alot of couples just seem so dead set on finding that elusive single woman that they miss out on other opportunity's and end up not doing anything |
I agree. Too often I think couples starting off get the idea that it will be easier to start with a single female.. whatever their reason.. for some they may just think that it will be easier to find a single female they both agree on than to find a couple that they both agree on.
However, the same thing goes.. couples who only swing with other couples may be missing out on lots of great fun and friendships as well. Each couple has to find what they are comfortable with and go with that, but that doesn't mean skipping out on trying different things in the process.
From everyone I've talked to that has had success with finding single females to play with (including my own experiences) it seems to work out best when it's someone you already know and have established a friendship/relationship with. No matter what situation you choose for your swinging you will get out of it what everyone puts in, so you have to make sure that EVERYONE involved is clear on what is going on and what is expected.
Julie
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