Yes, It's true that there are quite a few couples, and singles that only want a single female, and some that will even attempt to get a wife to swing without her husband. Obviously, the correct way to handle such people is to ignore them and move on.
Yet, there are also single females that WANT to be with a couple for a number of reasons. One that I have chatted with says that she prefers couples because she does not want a relationship with a man. She just wanted someone to swing with, and she much prefers a married couple. That way, she does not worry about him trying to get her into a long term relationship. That is their choice, and it is not up to us to pronounce judgement on them for it. If you are not into singles, then simply ignore the response to your ad. It's really just that easy. If you get all upset over it, then perhaps this lifestyle is not for you. There are far too many emotional pitfalls that one can fall into in this lifestyle, and you should not allow yourself to be dragged down to someone elses level.
My wife and I choose to seek out couples for a number of reasons, some of which we have already discussed in these forums. We might someday choose to have a single female join us, or a single male for that matter. We do not limit ourselves to any one particular type of swinging relationship. Many other couples only want a single, male or female, and that is the choice they made. We can either respect it, or keep silent about it.
Husband of CyberMWCouple
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