[DaveNSheila]

The service was yesterday and we saw the wife(made eye contact) and that was all. We knew them from the club and didnt exchange any info as ways to meet outside of the club. We left a card at the funeral home for the wife to get and put one of our business cards in it for her to call us if needed. From what we could tell we were the only ones from the swinger life there and we didnt make it known where we knew them from or anything like that. This is the first time having to sort of deal with this so not sure really how to go about it. I mean we understand death and the grieving process and all so wont do anything like that. We knew the couple and would socialize everytime we saw each other timing as far as playing was just off. Now well that is another story. We are hoping that the wife will call us not to play but to just chat and maybe we can build something out and away from the club. If not then hopefully we see her sometime eventually at a club and we can once again chat where everyone is comfortable. Thank you again all for your support and thoughts. D