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Old 08-24-2005, 08:54 PM   #15 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew
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Join Date: Jun 2004
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Default Re: Do you ever get used to seeing your partner with someone else?

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Originally Posted by bear_and_babe
Both Bear and I enjoy watching each other with another partner. So much so sometimes we get so distracted watching that we tend to forget the partner we are with! For that reason, we sometimes like separate rooms, so we can give our full attention to our partner. But it is still fun to be able to hear each other, even if we can't see each other.
I've found myself doing this and Drew has too. But, I think if we were in seperate rooms it would be even worse, because then I'd be straining to hear what was going on.

To answer the original question, I find it incredibly erotic to see Drew pleasuring another woman. Swinging wouldn't be hardly any fun at all if we didn't enjoy that, I think. Perhaps it is time to take a step back. Is it maybe because he does something with others that he doesn't do with you? Is it something else? I think there probably something more to this and you should talk to each other to figure out what it is.

Pepper
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