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Safe sex to me is;

No sex while operating moving vehicles or heavy equipment.

If at the rifle range, no sex in front of the firing line, only behind.

Never have sex in the middle of the street, always off to the side.

While skydiving, confine all sexual activities to altitudes over 1000 feet above the ground.

Allright, I couldn't resist, but I really don't have a good answer for this for a couple of reasons.

First, I think the risk that a lot of people perceive of std's in the swinging community is highly exagerated. I have never met anyone in the swinging community with any std that condoms would have prevented. So our policy is to use condoms if requested and use our best judgement when picking play partners.

second, the most common std's like, herpes and genital warts are not effectively prevented by condoms. So our policy to stay sober and be very observant is the best protection we can expect, in my opinion.