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Old 08-24-2005, 01:40 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Default Re: Fantasy talk with wife

I find it fascinating where the woman is the instigator (Mama, Lisa and Chastity) and a HUGE turn on. I guess that has moved to the top of my fantasy list - wife saying "I think we ought to try the swing thing". Although there is 100% chance of that NOT happening, if she only shares a few hot fantasies with me I will be happy.

Given her history, I think if I heard her say (and it would only happen during sex) "I want another cock in me" or "I want to watch you fuck some bitch" I would explode for about 5 minutes straight and then pass out.

The threesome thing has control of my fantasies right now, specifically the MFM. I'm not bi, I just key on my wife's happiness. Don't misunderstand, a FMF would be ultimate for ME, but at least in fantasy world where we "talk" about it, the MFM brief mention just before orgasm has been all I have been able to get away with.

Do you think mention of a foursome is too much or not that different from a threesome? I've never mentioned the word "swinger" during sex, and as I mentioned before, she wasn't too keen on the idea of another woman sucking on her tits.

I just don't know how to move forward to escalate our fantasy talk (or get her to open up). Do you think she believes telling me she has these thoughts will upset me (make me jealous or feel inferior)? Nothing could be farther from the truth! I constantly fantasize about watching her get fucked and deriving pleasure from another big cock - seeing her HAPPY - not used or loaned out. But I guess that is a fine line in most women's minds.
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