The Swingers Board - View Single Post - She wants to be with others but isn't ready for him to be

spkncouple · 08-24-2005, 01:59 AM

First post!

Hubby here. Alright, so her and I are also guilty of this desire for a 3/4 swap. I'm totally not interested in having sex with another woman. My wife is not into the idea either. But both of us are seriously holy hardcore horny over the idea of her being fucked by another man, possibly even a FMF, or MFM with me. I would prefer to watch, but after reading what everyone has had to say it gives me second thoughts. We're swinger virgins, so there's no telling what we are/aren't capable of.

The reason I decided to respond here is because of the conclusions reached by some of you regarding masscpl469's thread starter. I know for a fact that my wife isn't one to test me, especially when it comes to something like this. She also holds my feelings in high regard, as do I with her. To imply that my wife would not want me to sleep with another woman because of those reasons is not who she is. We both respect and love each other so deeply that I know for a fact she isn't that type. I could be wrong though, only because there's no telling what may come of a swinging... correction; 3/4 swinging lifestyle.

As for Vespertine's comment: "We would surmise that the woman wasn't secure with her relationship or was lacking in the self-esteem department or had a streak of jealousy. All of which we find unattractive." I know that my wife doesn't fit that description. I can, however, see it being likely for many non-swinging couples.

After our lengthy discussions on this topic she has made it clear that she does not want to share me. Translate that how you wish. I wholeheartedly do not want to have sex with another woman. Could my wife's opposition to that create a serious problem? Soon I'll get her on here to read and post.

Lastly, I love the site and appreciate the mature yet horny atmosphere all you veterans provide. It really is great! Thanks.

08-24-2005, 01:59 AM	#14 (permalink)
spkncouple Registered User Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 1 Location: Spokane, WA Status: Very Happily Married	Re: Is there such as a thing as 3/4 Swing? First post! Hubby here. Alright, so her and I are also guilty of this desire for a 3/4 swap. I'm totally not interested in having sex with another woman. My wife is not into the idea either. But both of us are seriously holy hardcore horny over the idea of her being fucked by another man, possibly even a FMF, or MFM with me. I would prefer to watch, but after reading what everyone has had to say it gives me second thoughts. We're swinger virgins, so there's no telling what we are/aren't capable of. The reason I decided to respond here is because of the conclusions reached by some of you regarding masscpl469's thread starter. I know for a fact that my wife isn't one to test me, especially when it comes to something like this. She also holds my feelings in high regard, as do I with her. To imply that my wife would not want me to sleep with another woman because of those reasons is not who she is. We both respect and love each other so deeply that I know for a fact she isn't that type. I could be wrong though, only because there's no telling what may come of a swinging... correction; 3/4 swinging lifestyle. As for Vespertine's comment: "We would surmise that the woman wasn't secure with her relationship or was lacking in the self-esteem department or had a streak of jealousy. All of which we find unattractive." I know that my wife doesn't fit that description. I can, however, see it being likely for many non-swinging couples. After our lengthy discussions on this topic she has made it clear that she does not want to share me. Translate that how you wish. I wholeheartedly do not want to have sex with another woman. Could my wife's opposition to that create a serious problem? Soon I'll get her on here to read and post. Lastly, I love the site and appreciate the mature yet horny atmosphere all you veterans provide. It really is great! Thanks.