our first time was with two other couples. I worked with the other two women and it was after the company christmas party. no one was ready to go home yet, so we ended up at one of the girls' house. the guys were drinking and playing cards, us girls were getting bored so we started fooling around. We started kissing and playing with each others breasts. Needless to say that got the boy's attention. we all soft swung that night mostly because none of us had any experience. No one was sure what the rules should be. We havent got to play with any of them again
but that opened the door to the lifestyle for me and Mr. Hot. we have been having MFM threesomes since then, with one of hubby's good friends, we are loving it and are discussing going to the next level for full swapping. I have no objections. but we have to lay the rules first. and we are taking our time with those so we can figure out what is acceptable for both of us.