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chastityrings · 08-23-2005, 03:45 PM

Hi Fringeswinger, My husband sounds like your wife,good boy, only serious relatationships, straight mom and pop sex before me, I allowed him to live out his fantisies(things he never DARED to do with his ex, he's kind of a kinky fuck) I told him my fantisies about going back to playing and he went paronoid on me thinking he wasn't enough for me and thinking that once I get an idea iI would go through with it. It was hell week,and I had a hell of a time getting it through his head that I would NEVER play without his consent, and that it wasn't about love and emotiontional fulfillment (my cup runnith over with that from he and our child) it was just about the sex, purley physical. Anyway...now he says he has gotton used to the idea nd he may someday actually want to try it....so slow and easy no pressure, and always be open and talk to each other, ya never know, it might happen, it might not, but, whatever the outcome you will still have each other and that is what's important.

08-23-2005, 03:45 PM	#11 (permalink)
chastityrings Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 152 Location: Mayberry	Re: Fantasy talk with wife Hi Fringeswinger, My husband sounds like your wife,good boy, only serious relatationships, straight mom and pop sex before me, I allowed him to live out his fantisies(things he never DARED to do with his ex, he's kind of a kinky fuck) I told him my fantisies about going back to playing and he went paronoid on me thinking he wasn't enough for me and thinking that once I get an idea iI would go through with it. It was hell week,and I had a hell of a time getting it through his head that I would NEVER play without his consent, and that it wasn't about love and emotiontional fulfillment (my cup runnith over with that from he and our child) it was just about the sex, purley physical. Anyway...now he says he has gotton used to the idea nd he may someday actually want to try it....so slow and easy no pressure, and always be open and talk to each other, ya never know, it might happen, it might not, but, whatever the outcome you will still have each other and that is what's important.