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Vicster, you're getting somepretty good advice over all, but as a single man I have a foot in "both worlds" so to speak. I have found that there are cheaters in and out of swinging but as a whole, swingers are way way less tolerant or inclined to cheat than non swingers. Whether or not you ever decide to swing with your boyfriend, take comfort that he is less likely to be a cheater. He obviously has opened up to you about some of his innermost feelings and hopefully you have too. Follow the advice about communication and go from there.