The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Told him he had to choose between me and swinging

Paramour2_99 · 08-22-2005, 05:39 AM

Vickster - look at it this way. If you were in the market for a new car and you researched Consumer Reports, J.D. Powers, Cars.Com, Consumers Digest, etc, etc, etc and all your research stated the car you want is extremely good looking, has lots of features for the price and decent rebates - BUT - it suffers on long-tem reliabilty, has too much depreciation within the first 3 years, and has inferior craftsmanship and you decide to buy it anyway then to me that may be swinging for you.

Ask yourself, why is it that you've never cheated but you want a guy that's into having sex with others? Is this the kind of relationship you're willy to change for just to have him? And as yourself and ask him "what comes after swinging" and how far are you willing to go in it? Gangbang perhaps or just with another couple, or just another manor woman???

It's my opinion that those that are best suited for swinging are also well equiped morally to justify relationships outside a marriage and if you're not that kind of person then leave swinging alone.

You know in your heart (without seeking reasons from strangers online) what knid of person you are and your what your own codes of conduct. Either you're comfortable with having sex with others or you're not.

08-22-2005, 05:39 AM	#10 (permalink)
Paramour2_99 Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 49 Location: Minneapolis	Re: need some friendly advice Vickster - look at it this way. If you were in the market for a new car and you researched Consumer Reports, J.D. Powers, Cars.Com, Consumers Digest, etc, etc, etc and all your research stated the car you want is extremely good looking, has lots of features for the price and decent rebates - BUT - it suffers on long-tem reliabilty, has too much depreciation within the first 3 years, and has inferior craftsmanship and you decide to buy it anyway then to me that may be swinging for you. Ask yourself, why is it that you've never cheated but you want a guy that's into having sex with others? Is this the kind of relationship you're willy to change for just to have him? And as yourself and ask him "what comes after swinging" and how far are you willing to go in it? Gangbang perhaps or just with another couple, or just another manor woman??? It's my opinion that those that are best suited for swinging are also well equiped morally to justify relationships outside a marriage and if you're not that kind of person then leave swinging alone. You know in your heart (without seeking reasons from strangers online) what knid of person you are and your what your own codes of conduct. Either you're comfortable with having sex with others or you're not.