 Re: Is there such as a thing as 3/4 Swing?
I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that your girlfriend wants to see how far she can push you before you say "enough". I've had this happen with a female friend who would come up behind me and grab my crotch and nibble on my neck in public, but would actually get angry (or pretend to) if I approached her first and tried to give her a simple hug. Touching her butt...SLAP!!! After a couple of weeks of this I confronted her and she actually smiled and said "I wondered when you would stand up for yourself and tell me to stop teasing you." We had a good thing going for a couple of months after that, but I couldn't keep up the Dominating Male role and she got bored.
If your girlfriend is willing to entertain the idea of sleeping with other men but says you can't sleep with the other woman, she's either trying to control all aspects of your relationship or, like I said before, she is trying to see how many of your buttons she can push before you say "That's enough". I don't know how long you two have been together, but your relationship is probably more about the struggle to see who is in control at this point. In your situation, I would just say "Hey, I don't think swinging is something we can do until we're both comfortable with what the other wants out of our relationship and sex."
But thats just my opinion
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