Welcome to the board!
Guess you'll be playing "Devil's Advocate" huh?
Hey, most of us on here are willing to listen to all sides of a conversation. You'll probably find us more willing to give you a voice here than if we went to a board of folks that were, well, let's just say, "Anti-Swinging".
10 years is a long time to be in the lifestyle. I'm sure you have some interesting perspectives on it.