 Re: "X" Swinger
Thanks for the warm welcome Jenn & James - I'm actually excited about being a member on this board. As a Christian I love all human beings. So since I've been in the lifestyle abd have experienced my fare share of it - I'm then qualified to give opinions.
As for your question - why we left the lifestyle, I guess you could say that it just ran it course. We hit a brickwall in that we experienced practically everything we wanted to do and then for us it was an empty feeling when we discussed our memories in the lifestyle.
After loosing those whom we considered friends as long as we were having sex with them, and learning of couples who wanted to get with us and then finding out some of them had STD's and AIDS we just said enough is enough. We were lucky that we never caught STD's (nor AIDS) and we never suffered from jealousies and insecurities. Some aren't that lucky. But in the end we quit swinging because our priorities changed towards each. We had children and "we" coudn't see having and asking for Gods blessings while partaking in swinging. We couldn't have it both ways.
I hope to hear from the board members soon ,,,,Sincerely "X" Swinger |