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Originally Posted by masscpl469 Hey all,
My GF wants to be with another couple, but is not entirely comfortable with me screwing the other woman. Oral sex, etc is fine. She can have intercourse with the other guy and I'm fine with that. I suggested "Soft Swap" - oral only with anyone (except for the guy-guy thing). I think that if my GF and the other guy go "full swap", then the other woman would think that "fair is fair" and expect and want to do the same with me.
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Not a totally unworkable scenario
and some possibilities that others are not seeing here.
We have been in a situation where I was basically the third for another couple and Ted did not play with the other wife...nothing major wrong with the encounter but it was something that we decided that we really didn't want to do again, unless it was the particular mood we were in at the time (him just sitting and watching me).
From what I'm gathering from your post is that basically your wife wants a FMF threesome with you doing little more than watching, with only slight participation.
This could work for many couples as there are numerous ones only looking for that elusive bi-female, where the female half of the couple does not want to play with another man. They would basically be getting this with you two with only slight moderation in the play. If boudaries were set and communication was good, it would be a very enjoyable play session.
The only thing that you would have to concern yourself with is how you would ultimately feel, i.e. being left out of the play. If your kink is just watching and participating to a mild degree, no problems. However, if you are also wanting to have sex with another woman while your wife has sex with another man and not getting to, eventually resentment will build. And that is something that you and your wife will have to settle between yourselves.
I would suggest spelling out exactly what you're looking for when searching for other couples, look for those who are okay with getting a FMF threesome with you watching/soft swinging. You might be surprised how many would enjoy having your wife for a threesome with you watching.
Teresa