Thanks, for the advice. We tried to talk about it last night.For whoever asked, if he really wants to do this, it was originally HIS idea. After we had a impromptu MFM threesome with his cousin, he asked me if I'd be interested in trying it as a couple. He has told me about some of his past experiences in swinging and I have shared stories of mine with him. Some very good friends of mine were into swinging and the more we talked the more excited he seemed to be about getting back into it.in fact it was HIM that first started surfing the swingers sites and put up our profile on one.
He was giving me the impression that he was all for it. I don't have a problem with any of the women he finds attractive at all.
I definantly think he's insecure and I have tried to assure him that I'm not looking for anybody else.He's ok with the idea of foursomes with other couples and if the man is exceptionally nice looking it hasn't bothered him. it's just the single men he's having issues with.lol
You're absolutly right,communication is what we need to do alot of.We're talking and will keep talking until we work this all out.
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