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JnK · 10-01-2001, 04:23 PM

My bf and I are having our first dilema in swinging as a couple. We have both been involved in swinging in the past as singles but this couple thing is brand new to us.

His experience is much more than mine. The problem is that now that we have decided to get back into it, this time together as a couple we're facing jealousy and insecurity problems. His, not mine. :-)

He is having problems with the men I am finding interesting and attractive. HE wants to pick for me! HE picks the nerdy looking losers. lol

I met a really nice, attractive guy on a swingers website that I really would like to get to know better, and possibly have a threesome with him sometime in the future, but K instantly disliked him. It has turned into a difficult situation. We had a big fight this weekend over it.

We had planned to do MFM, FMF, and foursomes or moresomes.I thought we were both ready to do this as a couple but I guess we're not. :-( I really do want to do this, but I'm not sure if he will be able to handle it now or not.

J

10-01-2001, 04:23 PM	#1 (permalink)
JnK Active Member Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 14 Location: burbank ca.	How to deal with jealousy? My bf and I are having our first dilema in swinging as a couple. We have both been involved in swinging in the past as singles but this couple thing is brand new to us. His experience is much more than mine. The problem is that now that we have decided to get back into it, this time together as a couple we're facing jealousy and insecurity problems. His, not mine. :-) He is having problems with the men I am finding interesting and attractive. HE wants to pick for me! HE picks the nerdy looking losers. lol I met a really nice, attractive guy on a swingers website that I really would like to get to know better, and possibly have a threesome with him sometime in the future, but K instantly disliked him. It has turned into a difficult situation. We had a big fight this weekend over it. We had planned to do MFM, FMF, and foursomes or moresomes.I thought we were both ready to do this as a couple but I guess we're not. :-( I really do want to do this, but I'm not sure if he will be able to handle it now or not. J