The Swingers Board - View Single Post - She wants to be with others but isn't ready for him to be

RNDNV · 08-19-2005, 08:28 PM

We are dead on in agreement with Vespertine on this one. Anytime one partner attempts to dictate or restrict the scope of play that the other partner "may be allowed" to participate in, then that is a hallmark sign that that person has "issues" with swinging.

We suggest that you have a good long talk with her, I think you may have hit it on the head when she said she didn't want to play alone anymore (which can be a good thing, but in this case it seems she wants to keep on playing, but wants you around, maybe to keep her safe, but doesn't want you having as much fun as she is). We certainly hope she isn't about rubbing your nose in it, and maybe she is just in it for the gals. Talk, talk, and talk, ultimately, she has the answers to your questions, not us.

08-19-2005, 08:28 PM	#8 (permalink)
RNDNV Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 114 Location: Reno, NV Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:RNDNV	Re: Is there such as a thing as 3/4 Swing? We are dead on in agreement with Vespertine on this one. Anytime one partner attempts to dictate or restrict the scope of play that the other partner "may be allowed" to participate in, then that is a hallmark sign that that person has "issues" with swinging. We suggest that you have a good long talk with her, I think you may have hit it on the head when she said she didn't want to play alone anymore (which can be a good thing, but in this case it seems she wants to keep on playing, but wants you around, maybe to keep her safe, but doesn't want you having as much fun as she is). We certainly hope she isn't about rubbing your nose in it, and maybe she is just in it for the gals. Talk, talk, and talk, ultimately, she has the answers to your questions, not us.