The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Swinging fantasy talk with my wife... will she become interested?

confunktion · 08-19-2005, 05:53 PM

It's great that you are being honest with each other. That's a big-time key to a healthy relationship. Keep that up, no matter what.

As for swinging, it seems as though she is giving you the stop sign, no question about it. I'd focus on making sex that much more intense and wonderful between the two of you. If you have fantasies like that, and she's cool with your honesty, well then OK. Don't hide yourself from her, but don't push. If she "comes to the table", then re-evaluate. If not, just enjoy each other. That's the necessary bedrock, no matter if you are a swinger or not. Good fortune to you both!

Mr. Funk
Not pushy, just funky.

08-19-2005, 05:53 PM	#2 (permalink)
confunktion Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 358 Location: Wisconsin Status: Widower	Re: Fantasy talk with wife It's great that you are being honest with each other. That's a big-time key to a healthy relationship. Keep that up, no matter what. As for swinging, it seems as though she is giving you the stop sign, no question about it. I'd focus on making sex that much more intense and wonderful between the two of you. If you have fantasies like that, and she's cool with your honesty, well then OK. Don't hide yourself from her, but don't push. If she "comes to the table", then re-evaluate. If not, just enjoy each other. That's the necessary bedrock, no matter if you are a swinger or not. Good fortune to you both! Mr. Funk Not pushy, just funky. __________________ The cool points are out the window, and I'm all twisted up in the game...