The Swingers Board - View Single Post - She wants to be with others but isn't ready for him to be

Vespertine · 08-19-2005, 01:49 PM

There is no right way or wrong way to swing. If you and your wife are happy with your boundaries, that's all that matters.

I'm sure you'll find some couples to play with, but they will be few and far between.

We wouldn't play with a couple that had such a rule. We would surmise that the woman wasn't secure with her relationship or was lacking in the self-esteem department or had a streak of jealousy. All of which we find unattractive.

Swinging for us is a team sport.

08-19-2005, 01:49 PM	#5 (permalink)
Vespertine Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,688 Location: Shangri La Status: Happily Married	Re: Is there such as a thing as 3/4 Swing? There is no right way or wrong way to swing. If you and your wife are happy with your boundaries, that's all that matters. I'm sure you'll find some couples to play with, but they will be few and far between. We wouldn't play with a couple that had such a rule. We would surmise that the woman wasn't secure with her relationship or was lacking in the self-esteem department or had a streak of jealousy. All of which we find unattractive. Swinging for us is a team sport.
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