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Originally Posted by Keremi We are pretty hesitant to put our picture out. What made you comfortable about sharing your photo so openly? Keremi |
James - I think we wanted to put our pictures out there because we are so open and do not want to hide anything about us. We are proud to be swingers and love the lifestyle. I can understand some peoples reservations about putting face pictures on Swing Lifestyle and other sites, because of children, family or careers. We look at it this way though, if they see your face there then they are looking for the same thing.
Jenn - WOW Keremi - great question!!! I guess that for me its just the manner in which I live my life. We are "out" to most of my family - my sibilings and my mother. I grew up in a home where everything and anything related to sex was talked about. We don't give details of course, but they know the lifestyle that we live. If someone that knew came across our picture, on here or Swing Lifestyle, well then if they wanted to "out" us to others, they'd have to also explain why they were there at a swinger's site too
We also use our real first names. With us, what you see is what you get. But I do understand other people's need for discretion - jobs, children and family, and we are sensitive to our people's reasons, even if we are open about who we are. So I guess what makes us so comfortable is that I have finally gotten to the point in my life to where it no longer matters what everyone else thinks, the people that are closest to me know about our lifestyle, and they accept it, whether or not they agree is another story LOL but that it really doesn't change who I am inside.