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Old 08-17-2005, 07:20 PM   #1 (permalink)
vickster
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Default Told him he had to choose between me and swinging

hi to all
I am new here because i have recently began a really good relationship with a man I truely admire..We are so good together and I can not think of my life without him.... we have one thing that is different between us and that is the lifestyle we have both lead ... I have never been with more then one man and have never cheated ... he on the other hand has been a swinger... I have recently found out that he wants that for us too....I have told him i would try and then when i think of it ..it so hard to me to even imagine him with another women ...so i told him it was me or his life sytle not both...I feel as if i have now put a wedge into our relationship and he may just wonder and find someone else...i dont want that either... We are all and all perfect for eachother and i want to spend the rest of my life taking care of him and loving him ..
so I found this site in effort to learn more and see if maybe just maybe i can live this ..
I am a a sex driven person and enjoy sex very much... so where do i start ...how do i go about it all...and how will it change me.....
I am hoping that here you all can be kind, and informative as i detemine on how to make this whole thing work , have it be part of my life style and insure i do not lose them man of my life....iI have not felt this way about anyone in a really long time and i really want to figure this all out
Hope one or more of you can help clear this all up for me
Thank-you for reading my thread and your time if you respond
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