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Originally Posted by lovedoctor ...but we don't feel that little tingle of sexual excitement with them... |
Lovedocs' and Evil's posts evoked one more thought: the occasion and the environment. Some times and places feel sexy, and some acquire it. One of us had the good fortune to be part of a network of mostly couples who met from time to time - sometimes a few people, but often a dozen or more. There were only a few locations - large homes in rural settings mostly - that could accommodate us comfortably. By the time that we joined, the group had a history together. Into that reassuring atmosphere we were escorted and accepted. When some of us met at other times and places, even in social or occupational situations, we'd speak of the times that we were all together, and were soon atingle.
Initiating, couple to couple, without a shared history and locale, maybe does call for an uncommon degree of attraction.