[EvilMJ]

We are probably in the minority on how we do things but we do play separately from time to time. Of course when I say this, I mean we are in the general vicinity of one another, at a dance (everyone has a hotel room) or at a house party, or at home. Because there are times when one is attractrive but the other just isn't doing it for hubby or myself. However, we would only do this if we are comfortable with that person. I have played with a couple that I wasn't entirely attracted to the husband and it did not work out at all. He and I just didn't click no matter how hard we tried. So now I have no problem if the wife and hubby want to play, but I just don't want to play with him.

It isn't always easy to find that perfect couple and it is okay to be picky, don't rush into somethign that is going to be a mistake and do what makes you most comfortable