[clit pro poet]

Getting well acquainted is much of the enjoyment for Mrs. Mr. too likes a level of comfort to go with sharing. This means that meeting isn't pressured. On the other hand, the pace and outcome are no more certain than any date might be. And four can be a complicated date! J&J, maybe try just three, or more than four? Less balance to mess with then.

Another tack... Thinking "couple" is a habit, and a good one in so many respects, for those of us who are couples. But we're individuals too, and enjoy any occasion, or not, for our own reasons. What we're about here - comfort, lust, and fun - invites imagination, moods, poses, from each participant. It's a freeing experience. It's you as much as you partner(s). Do y'all think that you are making too much of initial "attraction" as a qualifier?

Sorry that it's questions and not answers, exactly, but this is a much visited and always engaging topic. Also, Pepper & Drew got a good grip on it re: meeting people in person is much more natural and comfortable. Heck, "meet and greet" is just what we all used to do anyhow, before it had a name.