I don't think that other swingers necessarily need to see things our way but at the same time we look for swingers who do. I think there are different types of swinging.. probably as many as there are people.. but you have couples who are interested in full swap, couples who only want soft-swing, voyeurism and you have polyamorous couples.. couples who are looking to develop deep relationships with friends that extend to the point of loving them. We love our friends but we don't look at them as tho they are on the same level as each other. We have a very special relationship and no other is going to compare with that. When we have sex with others it is just that sex no matter how close our frienship might be. However, I will say that sex with friends is better than sex with someone you don't really know.. and it does usually make your friendship stronger.. so there is a difference.
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