[lovedoctor]

J&J -
We are kind of going thru the same thing right now. We have talked to a lot of couples and they all seem nice. So far there have been no amazing "sparks" to speak of. I was wondering if any of you mentors on here would recommending the "just do it" approach if we think the couple meets our requirements but we don't feel that little tingle of sexual excitement with them - just for the first little bit until our feet are wet (so to speak...) - I don't think it's because we are nervous or anything like that, I just think it will take sometime to find that right chemistry. In the meantime, what about practice for the sake of practice??? Or is that a pretty clinical approach and we should wait for the "right" couple?!