Just thought I'd throw my 2 cents into the pile being new to the message board, though y'all have pretty much said it all!
My hubby and I absolutely will NOT swing unless in the same bed. When we swing, we feel we are still making love to one another and want to be able to reach out and touch each other at any time.
This way, Julie, there is no jealousy or feeling of neglect from anyone. We aren't "swapping", but are engaged in a 4some!
We have found a couple of other couples who love this as well and all find great satisfaction and the ultimate in eroticism when we swing like this.
I should mention that one reason this works so well is that I am very bi and we only swing if the other wife is bi as well. So sex with another couple for us really is kinda a tangle of bodies! LOL Much fun for all!
