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Old 08-31-2000, 02:56 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Originally posted by Amy:
But if we do continue making love with them, over time, I would imagine it would evolve into having sex with the others spouse at will, regardless of whether or not the other 2 are present. It only makes sense to me that eventually it will become that common place. I am new at this. Do you think I am wrong?
That really depends on you and what you want. If you don't want to evolve past that and aren't comfortable with it doing so, then it won't. Your relationship goes where you take it. You set your own boundaries. It may come to a time where you consider trying something seperately, and you might even. You may decided that playing seperately just isn't for you. Or you may never play seperately, some couples don't. It all depends on you and what YOU are comfortable with and what works for you.

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