[EternallySingle]

You definitely got lucky. I know from experience that it is far easier to swing when the woman wants to do it for her own reasons than if you bring it up to her. At first I thought you were making this up LOL but then I remembered I got involved with a group of women the same way when I was in Washington. I started dating a woman that everyone KNEW was a lesbian. A few weeks later she did something strange and said to meet her at a coffee shop and she described what she would be wearing. When I got there another woman was wearing exactly what my girlfriend said she would be wearing. It turned out to be her roommate. We talked for a while then my girlfriend arrived wearing the exact same thing. My girlfriend said her girlfriend had watched us a few times and asked if she could join us. A week after that they invited me to a club in Vancouver. Two weeks after that they suggested I open an account at a particular bank and to go there at a particular day and time. One of the women that worked at the bank asked me out after I opened my account. After what I thought was a major deception, I met her husband and we worked things out. He took me to a strip club and I met another woman. Turns out the four women heard about swinging while in college and had been swinging as a group ever since. They met me and decided to let me in their inner circle for a while (until I met ... well, thats another sad story I told too many times here).

I'm glad something similar has happened to someone else besides me. Now I don't feel so weird...and believe that theres a small chance that maybe it will happen to me again sometime in the future. Before your story, I thought those days were long gone.