I suppose it depends upon your motivation for sharing sex with another couple. My husband and I had discussed it at length before we did it. We found it highly erotic just to think about swapping while we watched each other. Our desire was not to develop sexual relationships on the side but to add a new thrill to the relationship (with each other) that we already have. I think it is thrilling to make love to a different man while my husband shares my experience with gentle touches and kisses. And I do the same for him while he is with Kristen. But, for me, to make love to somebody without him there defeats the purpose. But if your relationship lasted 2 years it must have worked for you.
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