After some months of consideration my husband and I finally took "the plunge" and swapped with a couple that we have been friends with all of our married life. (12 years.) After weeks of teasing and flirting we spent an evening at their home. They are childless and that made it easier. We played in a soft swing way. Each husband explored and gave the other wife an orgasm manually and then each wife did the same for the other husband. It was truly weird at first! But I would not have even considered it if my husband had not been in the room. Our second meeting was 2 weeks later and we reserved a hotel room. At that time we had a full swap. If anything our downfall was that we planned it out almost too much. We orchastrated everything. We took turns making love, one couple at a time. When it was one wifes turn her husband leaned against the headboard and she leaned back into him while having intercourse with the other man. We got a little more independent with the others spouse after that initial swap. But the point is that having my husband there and participating was the best part. That was the fantasy fulfillment. I think without him there in the same room it would have just been more like cheating. I suppose different things work for different people though. |