I can see both sides of the same room/seperate room issue. There are actually more reasons that simple jealousy to drive that decision. For us, my husband really enjoys watching me with other guys.. which when you put us in a room with a couple has often caused problems. The other female ends up feeling like she isn't getting enough attention because he is watching me. So often the best way around that for us is seperate rooms.. either that or take turns.
As for the jealousy issue.. that is fairly common with first timers too and either you work it out with communication or you decide that swinging isn't for you. |