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Just Curious · 08-21-2000, 09:35 PM

Me and my wife of 11 years tried our first swing (full swing). We talked about it for about 5 or 6 months before it happened. The first time we meet this other couple we just went out for dinner, drinks and talked. We all deiced to meet again the next weekend for my birthday at a club.
The other couple stayed in a hotel. After we hooked up at the club, we stayed for about 3hrs and then took a walk on the beach, after about 30min on the beach we all deiced to go back to the hotel. My wife and this other man deiced to take a shower together, while me and his wife was getting cozy on the bed. When they got out of the shower, we did the same thing. After about 30min of me and this other woman in the shower, we deiced to go into the bedroom where my wife and her husband was at. When we got into the bedroom me and the other guy went soft(why). Me and the other girl was trying to make the best of an embarrassing moment, but as soon as my wife heard me moan she got jealous. She got up, got dressed and left the room.
We came home and talked all night. She said that "she was A-OK when me and the other girl was in the shower but when she heard me moan she flip out"(is this normal). After about 2 weeks of talking she deiced to try it again, but this time she wanted to try a 3-some with another guy, so we did. We had the best night of sex ever. After we had our 3-some we came home and had sex for 5hrs it was great. Now she wants to try the 4-some again but when we swap she wants it to be in separate rooms (is this normal). We would appreciate your help on this one.

Thank You,
Just wondering

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08-21-2000, 09:35 PM	#1 (permalink)
Just Curious Registered Join Date: Aug 2000 Posts: 5 Location: FL	Wife can't handle seeing/hearing husband being pleasured Me and my wife of 11 years tried our first swing (full swing). We talked about it for about 5 or 6 months before it happened. The first time we meet this other couple we just went out for dinner, drinks and talked. We all deiced to meet again the next weekend for my birthday at a club. The other couple stayed in a hotel. After we hooked up at the club, we stayed for about 3hrs and then took a walk on the beach, after about 30min on the beach we all deiced to go back to the hotel. My wife and this other man deiced to take a shower together, while me and his wife was getting cozy on the bed. When they got out of the shower, we did the same thing. After about 30min of me and this other woman in the shower, we deiced to go into the bedroom where my wife and her husband was at. When we got into the bedroom me and the other guy went soft(why). Me and the other girl was trying to make the best of an embarrassing moment, but as soon as my wife heard me moan she got jealous. She got up, got dressed and left the room. We came home and talked all night. She said that "she was A-OK when me and the other girl was in the shower but when she heard me moan she flip out"(is this normal). After about 2 weeks of talking she deiced to try it again, but this time she wanted to try a 3-some with another guy, so we did. We had the best night of sex ever. After we had our 3-some we came home and had sex for 5hrs it was great. Now she wants to try the 4-some again but when we swap she wants it to be in separate rooms (is this normal). We would appreciate your help on this one. Thank You, Just wondering [This message has been edited by Just Curious (edited 08-21-2000).]