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Old 08-14-2005, 01:45 AM   #7 (permalink)
Dynamar
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Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 722
Location: A flyover state
Status: Single
Swing Lifestyle Name:Dynamar

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Default Re: Are we too picky?

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Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple
People who are really engaged in the lifestyle and who are genuinely attracted to you will call.
I'll presume here that you are referring to a couple-to-couple situation. Because, in general, my tack as a single is very different.

Never wanting to appear to be "the pushy single"... I will not initiate a telephone call. If a couple shares their phone number with me, and I feel comfortable enough to give them mine as well... I will wait for their call.

Still... the outcome in many of my situations too, is that they don't call. Or if they do, then that's all they want to do... talk back and forth ad infinitum. If a couple wants to meet me, they make the first move and ask me for a meet. I never will.
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