Re: Are we too picky? The most carefully considered advice that I (Michael) might give is that the Swing Lifestyle advertisement gets you only part way to the goal. The last ten yards are gained by having a definite strategy for arranging a meeting. We sort through the hesitant, the undecided and the "pretends" by offering a cell phone number and inviting a call. The call sometimes comes quickly, sometimes slowly, sometimes not at all. People who are really engaged in the lifestyle and who are genuinely attracted to you will call. |