I haven't had much of a chance to respond to the ones who answered so this is a little late, but I do thank you for your responses. I think there is some truth to all of the answers I got. My honey & I have talked since then, & my suspisions about her intentions are true

. She just doesn't want to feel pressured, which is understandable. But I think we may actually have a future with this hobby. Thankyou again.