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Old 08-11-2005, 05:59 PM   #11 (permalink)
iowancouple96
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Join Date: Dec 2004
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Location: NE Iowa
Status: Married couple
Swing Lifestyle Name:Jenn_and_Todd

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Default Re: Is what we're feeling normal???

After careful consideration, we have decided to not meet this guy this weekend. We ended up making better plans with a couple that we've been chatting with for awhile. There were just too many factors that made me decide that this wasn't the guy I wanted for my first MFM experience. Actually HE was the one that didn't seem like he wanted to meet at a bar and have a few drinks first. I suggested it, and he honestly didn't sound like he was all for it. That was one of the main factors on my decision.

And thanks Mike & Jan for making me realize that there are many more men out there that would be perfect for our first MFM, and that we don't need to settle on the first one that comes our way!

This couple we're meeting up with this weekend has similar interests and is looking for the same things we are. We're meeting up for dinner and drinks first, and possibly hitting one of the local strip clubs (which we all enjoy). And after that, who knows what may happen? So instead of being nervous, we're pretty excited!!!
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