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Originally Posted by Vespertine If the friends aren't swingers, they might not know the "swinger" way to seduce them. Or maybe they're trying to feel them out. In fact, when we're (my husband & I) seducing a Vanilla, we'll set up the playing field like this couple's friends are doing to see if they'll take the bait. It's a good way to get a Vanilla thinking w/out having to say anything incriminating.
I could be justifying my own horrible actions here, but we've had a lot of success with this method. |
Many times if you were to ask a person outright, they will usually run for cover and you could incriminate yourself in the process. Maybe right before anything happens, you might clarify just a bit or I guess you could just let happen what happens and talk later!
And Ves I can't imagine anything horrible about you.
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