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Old 08-10-2005, 06:23 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Default Re: Do you think they want to play???

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Originally Posted by jennandjamesinm
Having said that - I think that if they are planning something and not including ya'll in these plans - I would tread carefully with this friendship. Friends just don't do this kind of stuff, IMO.
If the friends aren't swingers, they might not know the "swinger" way to seduce them. Or maybe they're trying to feel them out. In fact, when we're (my husband & I) seducing a Vanilla, we'll set up the playing field like this couple's friends are doing to see if they'll take the bait. It's a good way to get a Vanilla thinking w/out having to say anything incriminating.

I could be justifying my own horrible actions here, but we've had a lot of success with this method.
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