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**Pepper & Drew** · 08-10-2005, 03:54 PM

I think that if you want to do it, go ahead. Now, if it were me, I'd have some reservations because 1) you don't really know whether his sig. other knows (having a woman confront you in a parking lot would really be a mood-kill) 2) it seems like you've never met this guy in person (sometimes you think you're going to hit it off with someone, but in person it's different) and because you're already building this up like you're definitely going to have sex.

I think I'd agree to meet him, but let him know that sex may not necessarily happen on the first meeting. That way, if he turns out to be a total troll, you've not made any promises. More information always makes me feel more comfortable.

Pepper

08-10-2005, 03:54 PM	#8 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew Mmmmm...tasty! Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 1,031 Location: Hurricane Alley Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:alhedonists	Re: Is what we're feeling normal??? I think that if you want to do it, go ahead. Now, if it were me, I'd have some reservations because 1) you don't really know whether his sig. other knows (having a woman confront you in a parking lot would really be a mood-kill) 2) it seems like you've never met this guy in person (sometimes you think you're going to hit it off with someone, but in person it's different) and because you're already building this up like you're definitely going to have sex. I think I'd agree to meet him, but let him know that sex may not necessarily happen on the first meeting. That way, if he turns out to be a total troll, you've not made any promises. More information always makes me feel more comfortable. Pepper __________________ "Swinging is a lot like riding a Harley, ...for those who understand, no explanation is necessary; for those who don't, no explanation is possible." --Mr. Alura