Jean.
The name of the game is "take it at your own pace!" Really. Soft-swing is just fine and it's very exciting to all involved. When and IF things progress farther, you and your husband will (hopefully) be talking it over at length. It will then become a natural progression. Just be SURE to communicate true feelings with each other.
I would be willing to bet that MOST women who swing are BBW, and many men are also a bit "BBM" so to speak!! So don't be intimidated by this. Just keep looking until you find that right couple.... they are out there, probably closer by than you think! Good luck!!
Ron, Husband of Stratecpl
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