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Jean · 07-16-2001, 07:15 PM

Hi, I am new to this and my dh and I are interested in softswinging and I have a few questions. I read the ads for swingers in the dfw area, only I am a little nervous about how I look. I would consider myself bbw, only not huge or nothing, anyway, I guess I am a little selfconscience about how I look. Plus I hear about how it is formed thru friendship, only how do you go about finding that friendship. Are the posts in the ad part of the webpage ok. I am so afraid of meeting some weirdo. Not that they arn't ok, its just not what I want ya know. With me being new to all of this, I want to step into this slowly, and not be pushed. Anyway sorry to rattle on, but I would like to find a couple in the dfw are ( Texas ) and they be a nice normal couple like us and is ok to softswing and let me go slow at this, plus not mind the way I look. And if it goes farther than I can decide later. If anyone could respond I would appreciate it. Everyone in this board has seemed so nice and I felt really comfortable asking. Thanks to All.

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Jean Registered Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 5 Location: DFW Texas	New With Questions: Self conscious about weight Hi, I am new to this and my dh and I are interested in softswinging and I have a few questions. I read the ads for swingers in the dfw area, only I am a little nervous about how I look. I would consider myself bbw, only not huge or nothing, anyway, I guess I am a little selfconscience about how I look. Plus I hear about how it is formed thru friendship, only how do you go about finding that friendship. Are the posts in the ad part of the webpage ok. I am so afraid of meeting some weirdo. Not that they arn't ok, its just not what I want ya know. With me being new to all of this, I want to step into this slowly, and not be pushed. Anyway sorry to rattle on, but I would like to find a couple in the dfw are ( Texas ) and they be a nice normal couple like us and is ok to softswing and let me go slow at this, plus not mind the way I look. And if it goes farther than I can decide later. If anyone could respond I would appreciate it. Everyone in this board has seemed so nice and I felt really comfortable asking. Thanks to All.