The Swingers Board - View Single Post - She will talk about it, but says doing it is a different thing

spankem69 · 08-06-2005, 10:58 AM

Just a question for anyone who may have been where I am. My wife and I have discussed swinging off and on for about a year. I'm the one who brought it up and 9 x out of 10, I initiate the discussion. It has gone from " No way in hell, I won't even discuss it" (the wife) to very interesting talks. We've at least established that, on a fantasy level, we would want to watch the other get it on. She feels, however, that talking and doing are two totally different things. I agree. But to me, it stands to reason that if you're willing to talk about it to that point, there must be some level of intrest in maybe doing some day. Has anyone else started this way? Anyones input would be greatly appreciated.

08-06-2005, 10:58 AM	#1 (permalink)
spankem69 Active Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 16 Location: Florida Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:CentFlCouple96	She will talk about it, but says doing it is a different thing Just a question for anyone who may have been where I am. My wife and I have discussed swinging off and on for about a year. I'm the one who brought it up and 9 x out of 10, I initiate the discussion. It has gone from " No way in hell, I won't even discuss it" (the wife) to very interesting talks. We've at least established that, on a fantasy level, we would want to watch the other get it on. She feels, however, that talking and doing are two totally different things. I agree. But to me, it stands to reason that if you're willing to talk about it to that point, there must be some level of intrest in maybe doing some day. Has anyone else started this way? Anyones input would be greatly appreciated.