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WesternSwing · 08-03-2005, 01:28 PM

Everyone here has pretty much covered what to do and how to approach your wife. I'll chime in with what allot of others have said also: our list of "rules" has greatly reduced since we started in the lifestyle. In fact, only one still exists, and that is 100% honest at all times. We've pretty much become comfortable with the others and crossed them off the list with certain people.

So give it time, and as you get more experienced and you both become more comfortable with each other in swinging situations the boundries and rules will change. I think most people here would say they had allot of rules and boundries when they started, and looking back now they seem silly.

Mr. WS

08-03-2005, 01:28 PM	#16 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: Discussing boundaries, what a shocker! Everyone here has pretty much covered what to do and how to approach your wife. I'll chime in with what allot of others have said also: our list of "rules" has greatly reduced since we started in the lifestyle. In fact, only one still exists, and that is 100% honest at all times. We've pretty much become comfortable with the others and crossed them off the list with certain people. So give it time, and as you get more experienced and you both become more comfortable with each other in swinging situations the boundries and rules will change. I think most people here would say they had allot of rules and boundries when they started, and looking back now they seem silly. Mr. WS
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