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Old 08-03-2005, 01:15 AM   #12 (permalink)
WesternSwing
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Default Re: Too fat to swing?!?

Our experience has been that weight it not an issue in the lifestyle with 70% or more of people. Mrs. WS shops in the size 12+ area, she is pretty honest about her weight in our profiles, and I'll tell you she is not hurting for attention from both men and women at clubs and on the swingers sites. We have two couple we swing with that the women are very fit and slender, and their husbands are all about Mrs. WS.

Single guys will contact us who are just muscular, cut, and in great shape. Mrs. WS can't believe they are interested in her because she has a few extra pounds after a couple of kids.

Our experience has been that most those in the lifestyle are real people and know the score about what real people look like. In fact, I haven't met a pornstar perfect swinger yet. Seen ads from some on swingers sites, but have never actually seen them in person at a club or party.

As a man, for me I am attracted to the whole woman, not just physical appearances. I don't have any real "type" I'm attracted to. One woman may be 115 lbs with A-cup breasts and the next 200 lbs with all the curves. There is so much more to "sexy" then just weight.

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