[pumpkins1970]

My wife and I are both on the heavier side, yet we have no problem finding people who are interested in us. Yes, there is the occassional shallow ass who thinks that only a size 3 is hot,or that every man should have 6-pack abs, but then I don't think he/she knows what true beauty really is. We don't consider weight to be a factor in determining if someone is hot or not, personality and confidence have a big part in a person's attractiveness, but also in how you present yourself. Just because you are overweight doesn't mean you cannot dress nice and be sexy. You should have a little pride in yourself, because if you don't, NO ONE else will! We do agree however that we are both attracted to people who are closer to our body type, she has always liked bigger men and I have always loved a woman with curves. Just one more thought as I ramble on, would you really want to swing with someone who is so shallow that they are worried about 10 -20 extra lbs. Screw 'em (not really). Mr. & Mrs. Pump